Mi bili zenati 8 let, no v NY zivem tol’ko 5 mesazev. Xochu razvestis s moim muzem Zoroi. Advokati govoryat chto edinstvenni sposob razvestis v NY – nuzno pokazat’ zestokoe otnoshenie muza k sebe. Dostatochno li budet pokazat’ chto Zora chasto so mnoi sporit, ne daet mne tratit’ moi den’gi, I ignoriruet menya kogda ya proshu ego obyasnit’ ego gruboe povedenie?
Unfortunately, you have two choices: wait for another 7 months – until you have lived in NY for a full year – to commence the action. The second choice is to sue your husband for cruel and inhuman treatment. In order to secure a divorce on the grounds of cruel and inhuman treatment, its not enough to show you have quarreled and have been incompatible. You must show serious misconduct on his part. The shorter the marriage the less misconduct or less gravity of misconduct will need to be shown to obtain a divorce. 8 years is considered a short marriage (I have been married for 4 years so that 8 years seems like a long time to me). You should seriously think about alternatives – such as a divorce on consent, separation, or getting divorced in another jurisdiction.